The key to a happy and peaceful life lies within the internal habits and cultures that a person follows.
Table of contents:
The role of culture in happiness of the life
Today’s era of unhappy minds
Childhood: the foundation of a happy and peaceful life
Bringing peace and happiness into worldly relations
Senescence: an investment into internal divine happiness.
THE ROLE OF CULTURE IN HAPPINESS OF THE LIFE
Today the nation is moving towards western culture. A culture which envisions a lonely life apart from family and full of parties at every moment, whether happy or sad. But in this race, we often forget the happy traditional ways of our society that led us to be such a powerful front in the world.
Saint Dr Gurmeet Ram Rahim Singh Ji Insan unlocked the key to a happy and peaceful life in this massive world of problems through this latest video:
Indian culture describes various phases of life – the Grihasta life (household life), the Brahmacharya life (the celibacy life) etc.
Every phase can in itself be a happy and a peaceful time period if lived in an appropriate way.
TODAY’S ERA OF UNHAPPY MINDS
Saint Dr Gurmeet Ram Rahim Singh Ji Insan explains how today, not even old age provides solace to a person. They find a dire need to know what’s happening in the house as well as at work. Plus the youngsters ignoring their presence makes their life even more pitiful and sad.
Saint Dr Gurmeet Ram Rahim Singh ji insan explains this through a story:
‘An elderly God fearing man divides all his property amongst his 3 sons. After that all the three families started neglecting the poor thing, making him wander from one home to another and finally forcing him to leave the family entirely. The man decided to leave everything and go under the refuge of his spiritual master and stay there to serve God’s creatures. On his way he met his master and explained the situation there and then. The Guru gave him an idea and he went back to the family. On reaching the middle of the house, he started hitting his trunk packed for the journey. When everyone gathered, he explained that he found some gold coins on the way which he kept with him locked. Once again, suddenly all the three sons started caring about him, wanted him to live in their house, serve him and everything. The man would keep the key to the gold coin trunk with himself all the time.
When the time came to depart from the world and the God loving man realized so, he gathered everyone to open the trunk and divide the stuff equally amongst them. Turns out, there were rocks in his trunk, and the man taught a beautiful lesson to his sons that today only wealth is served, not human beings. If you want the same love and respect in your old age as now, you should be an example to your kids yourself now.’
CHILDHOOD: THE FOUNDATION OF A HAPPY AND PEACEFUL LIFE
Childhood plays an important role in building a peaceful and a happy lifestyle for a person. Saint Dr Gurmeet Ram Rahim Singh ji insan explains that children should be reared with extreme attention and love, and not just leave them up to themselves or even the servants of the family. If we want the child to excel in a field, we also need to monitor them in the required way (like talking to their teachers, helping them understand and practice things and keenly watching their progress). It would shape the child’s mind towards betterment and influence his/her brain towards positivity.
The attention and love, as Saint Dr Gurmeet Ram Rahim Singh ji insan explains, should be showered equally from both maternal as well paternal side.
It is a male dominated society. While the mother bears the pain of death for carrying the heir of the family, still the perception that ‘masculinity stays strong with femininity suppressed’ persists somewhere in the society. Saint Dr Gurmeet Ram Rahim Singh ji insan well describes that the real masculinity lies in standing shoulder to shoulder with your spouse and females of the family, helping them in every errand of life.
BRINGING PEACE AND HAPPINESS INTO WORLDLY RELATIONS
Also, Saint Dr Gurmeet Ram Rahim Singh Ji Insan guides that trust and respect is what builds peace and happiness into a relationship. As we exemplify, even the marriages for love fail when trust issues pop up into a relationship. Saint Dr Gurmeet Ram Rahim Singh ji insan quotes an example – a hair on the shirt of a man could be because of today’s problem of hair fall, but the spouse is bound to take it the wrong way and the family breaks.
Also, dominating your spouse would bring no love or happiness into a relationship. Respect each other’s integrity, decisions and provide a say in every matter. Every person has a different angle. So rather it might turn out to be a solution to your problem or a peace to your stormy life.
SENESCENCE: AN INVESTMENT INTO INTERNAL DIVINE HAPPINESS
Moving on, Saint Dr Gurmeet Ram Rahim Singh ji insan also explains that old age is the time when every Grihasta person (person following the household way of living) should also give up his/her worldly life to focus the attention on reminiscing God and serving his creatures. Undoubtedly,
Life is in itself a great book which teaches unique lessons throughout. So helping the young is one thing but posing the nose in every worldly task would bring no good for us or the family and take away the happiness and peace you desire for the whole life.
So bring your life onto a line and follow the path of happiness with Saint Dr Gurmeet Ram Rahim Singh ji insan.